José in Germany a medical adventure
José in Germany a medical adventure
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Don't we all like a happy end?

At least we do! "we"., that's José and Alfons Verreijt. José is a graphical designer and Alfons is a vocalcoach and singer. We met through the web in 2003. We both lived alone, and were not happy with that. Only when we were finally able to define our "dreampartner" we could take the plunge to find a partner through a serious dating site. José found Alfon's profile: it seemed a perfect match. But alas, after one meeting: no chemistry, no spark. But possibly a good friendship. Until, two dates later, there was that unexpected thing...We went to Brugge together, and there Alfons whispered in José's ear:"your are going to be the mother of my children". The sound of these words had hardly died away, when José got pregnant. So we decided to marry, in a rush, since José's father was dying. We got married at his bedside. He passed away one month later, in december 2003. On april the 6th 2004 Tim was born, 6 weeks early, and our house wasn't even finished! Rough times, going from the incubator to the renovation and back, José was recovering from her ceasarian and both joy for her son and grieve for her father was her part, it was tough. Once revovered, she went back to work, driving more than 3 hours a day to her work. Working parttime wasn't allowed by her boss, so she got fired. She wanted her own business, combined with a job for a promotor. Her business should have been started in 2005, but things were going to turn out slightly different in May...
Don't we all like a happy end?

At least we do! "we"., that's José and Alfons Verreijt. José is a graphical designer and Alfons is a vocalcoach and singer. We met through the web in 2003. We both lived alone, and were not happy with that. Only when we were finally able to define our "dreampartner" we could take the plunge to find a partner through a serious dating site. José found Alfon's profile: it seemed a perfect match. But alas, after one meeting: no chemistry, no spark. But possibly a good friendship. Until, two dates later, there was that unexpected thing...We went to Brugge together, and there Alfons whispered in José's ear:"your are going to be the mother of my children". The sound of these words had hardly died away, when José got pregnant. So we decided to marry, in a rush, since José's father was dying. We got married at his bedside. He passed away one month later, in december 2003. On april the 6th 2004 Tim was born, 6 weeks early, and our house wasn't even finished! Rough times, going from the incubator to the renovation and back, José was recovering from her ceasarian and both joy for her son and grieve for her father was her part, it was tough. Once revovered, she went back to work, driving more than 3 hours a day to her work. Working parttime wasn't allowed by her boss, so she got fired. She wanted her own business, combined with a job for a promotor. Her business should have been started in 2005, but things were going to turn out slightly different in May...
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